YWCA Mount Desert Island
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It takes courage to ask for help.

Crisis Support

NextStep Domestic Violoence Project
Help Number:
1-800-315-5579

Maine's Sexual Assault Support Center:
1-800-871-7741

Food Resources

Bar Harbor Food Pantry
34 Kennebec Place
Bar Harbor, Maine 04609
Phone:
(207) 288-3375
Email: bhpantry@bhfp.org

OPEN HOURS:

Tuesday: 9:00am - 2:00pm
Wednesday: 9:00am - 2:00pm
Thursday: 12pm - 6:00pm
Fresh Food Fridays: 9:00am - 12:00pm

Shelter

Emmaus Homeless Shelter
51 Main Street
Ellsworth, ME 04605

Phone: 207-667-3962

MAINE 2-1-1 (Shelters & Warming Centers)
Dial 211 or 1-866-811-5695
(If calling from Maine; 711 Video Relay accessible) or dial 1-877-463-6207 (If calling from out-of-state)

Identify Abuse ↘

This is the first step. Ask yourself if any of these signs point to your relationship health.

Red Flags

Unhealthy Relationship Checkpoints

Does your partner…

  • Get jealous easily or accuse you of having an affair?

  • Have abuse in family history?

  • Throw objects at you or destroy your property?

  • Make you account for every moment you are away?

  • Restrain you?

  • Ridicule you?

  • Threaten to hurt you, your children, or your pets?

  • Manipulate you with lies or promises?

  • Threaten to or force you to have sex?

  • Make you feel you don’t have the right to say “no” or disagree?

  • Isolate you from family, friends, work?

  • Make all the decisions in the home for you?

  • Have previous contact with the justice system?

  • Control all of the money?

  • Have weapons?

Green Flags

Healthy Relationship Checkpoints

Does your partner…

  • View you as an equal?

  • Respect you and treat you fairly?

  • Make you feel safe (emotionally and physically)?

  • Discuss disagreements peacefully?

  • Allow the relationship to go at your pace?

  • Act as a positive role model for your children?

  • Value your opinions?

  • Communicate openly and honestly?

  • Support your goals in life?

  • Make family and money decisions together with you?

  • Compromise?

  • Have a positive image of family?

  • Make your friends and family feel comfortable?